Four key signs, warning of a disconnection from your happiness path

EP016 with Alison O'Leary

Define your happiness markers

In this episode I’m coming at you solo to talk about the notion of HAPPINESS.

It’s something we are all seeking, but it’s a nebulous term, and for many, working out what it actually looks and feels like, and what it involves for us, is really hard to pin down.

Personally, I spent MANY years in the dark, with no idea what real happiness looked like for me, and now I have a lot of clients who come to me because they’re in a similar position – feeling really disconnected from what makes them happy, either from a work or personal point of view, or both.

In this episode I talk you through what causes this disconnect; the signs to look out for that will indicate that you’re veering away from your own happiness path; and I share an idea for how to reconnect more deeply with your own intrinsic happiness drivers.

So if you’re feeling like your happiness quotient could do with a boost or an outright overhaul, come and join me.

In this episode I talk about

  • A definition of happiness and more specifically ‘adventures in happiness’
  • How we commonly get disconnected from what makes us happy (hint: it involves a lot of ‘adulting’!)
  • The four signs that indicate you have become disconnected from your true happiness markers:
    • Persistent malaise (you are so tired, all of the time)
    • Sadness (that you just can’t justify or put your finger on)
    • Anxiety (ongoing low or high levels of anxiety)
    • Physical illness (physical dis-ease)
  • The importance of pinpointing your own intrinsic drivers (identifying the personal driving forces that hold the most meaning for you)
  • I walk you through an intrinsic drivers exercise. Here’s the visualisation audio I talk about in the episode, which may help you access ideas and memories.

Be sure to listen to the full episode – it’s only 13 minutes! – and try out the exercise to uncover your intrinsic drivers for creating your own adventures in happiness 😊

 

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